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just a little confused?

Me & my fiancee are getting married soon. He has two kids by 2 different women. The youngest child mother isn't to fond of me (b/c I am with the sons father). She doesn't know me not to like me. We casusally speak at holidays but it go beyond that. I am 23 she is 10 yrs older than I. Now in the past she has held b-day parties for the kids that I wasn't allowed to attend b/c of the fact that she doesn't like me. Now she be playing petty childish games on the internet and things & to me I am grown we are not in high school. I came to the terms that I am going to deal with her b/c of the child. But I just don't know what I should do. I want to reach out and commuicate and see what's her problem. But then and again I am thinking what for? Does ne1 has ne suggestions it will b glady appreciated
Now I am trying to change for the better and I am trying to deal with this in a positive way. But I do feel some of the things that she write is directed towards me. I try not to let it get to me but sometimes it very hard. I wasn't raise like that to hate ppl r dislike ppl. But I do know that it is always going to be ppl that isn't going to like u no matter what you do. Any advice would help. Thanks

4 years ago - 2 answers

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Invite her out for coffee or lunch. Make small talk. Do this a couple times a wek. Then invite her to dinner and talk. It can'y hurt.

4 years ago

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Invite her out for coffee or lunch. Make small talk. Do this a couple times a week. Then invite her to dinner and talk. It can't hurt.

by jeffgordonfan24® - 4 years ago