Question
I'm 21 and got kicked out of my house, do I have to go home if they ask me to?
Basically I live with my aunt and uncle and my uncle wants nothing to do with me anymore. they took me in when i was 14 and hes at the end of his wits. everything i do is never enough for him and the other day he told me i cant live there anymore. my aunt is trying to find me a place to live but i rather live with my boyfriend. how do i go about that? i stay at my boyfriends house and go home when my uncle is at work. i need help and i cant take it anymore!!
3 weeks ago - 16 answers
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You have been a legal adult for three years now. You can live wherever you're welcome. Nobody can make you live anywhere you don't want to. If you want to live with your boyfriend, then pack up your stuff and bring it over there. (If he's renting somewhere, you'd better check to make sure it's OK with the landlord, or he could wind up being evicted.)
by rtfm
3 weeks ago
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no go live in a box in a ally lol jk ya u should
by the fun one- 3 weeks ago
uh...you are a legal adult and responsible for yourself. Go live your life. Get a job, find a place to live; join the grownup world.
by wizjp- 3 weeks ago
You are old enough to make your own decision and too old to be living with your aunt and uncle. Do what feels right but you will feel amazing if you can do it on your own! Good luck!
by kaina- 3 weeks ago
dude. no you dont have to. 21 is legally an adult, and the age you can move out, in any country. you DO NOT have to go back if you dont want to. you control yourself, not them.
by Shadow- 3 weeks ago
NO! if they say you have too NO!!!!!! Your 21 years old...you are NO longer under there control. Now I believe that if your under their roof then its their rules. But at 21 you should start looking for your own place anyway. So no you don;t have to listen to them anymore. If you have a place to stay, then go there. Start your own life!!!
by teenitiny10- 3 weeks ago
at 21, it's time to move out on your own. have fun. of course you don't need to go back. lol unless you have some special needs or something and need extra care. don't get it
by the eyes have it!- 3 weeks ago
Rent an apartment. If not, live with your boyfriend.
by TAC0 FROM HELL- 3 weeks ago
You're 21, so you don't have to ask anyone what to do with your life. Go get yourself a job, earn some money, rent an apartment. Your aunt and uncle are not responsible for you anymore. By the way, this may be the reason why he is so irritable. He probably wants you out of his house because he thinks he supported you long enough, and he's got his point.
by Tusia- 3 weeks ago
you are an adult. Start acting like one. Get a job (if you don't have one) and save money.
by real estate guy- 3 weeks ago
if your 21 you can do as you please and they will have a really hard time compelling you to do something like move back in. they would have to prove your a danger to yourself or something crazy like that so dont worry. what you should definetly consider is wheather or not moving in with your boyfriend is a good idea. Is his house cleaning standards up to par with yours, laundry, dishes, bathroom. Is he gonna pay his part of the rent everymonth. what if he doesnt. I think you might be able to find a more suitable room mate. I would suggest another woman. someone you know doesnt drink, smoke, drug, etc. someone you know has a good job and wont have any money problems. etc. besides moving in with a guy changes the dynamics of realationship really really fast. and to the point that you cant change them back. It sounds like your ready to move out, just think about it. ALOT!!
by bergerbradford- 3 weeks ago
You are 21. No one can make you do anything anymore. No can be held accountable for you either. And no one HAS to let you live there. You move in with your boyfriend, what do you mean "how do you do that"? You pack your stuff and you bring it to his place and you move in. Home is not at your Aunt and Uncles place anymore if he wants you to move out. You are an adult and they have no obligation to you.
by The Wife- 3 weeks ago
In the US you are an adult at 18 and on your own. You should have moved out 3 years ago!
by ~*Mama-of-Two*~- 3 weeks ago
your an adult, you can do what you want, move out end of story
by coastiewife- 3 weeks ago
I see why your uncle is at the end of his wits. It is time for you to grow up.
by hanora- 3 weeks ago
You are 21. Unless you are still in college you should have your OWN place. Not some shack up with a boyfriend, but a place of your own. Your uncle is right, you have no business living with them anymore.
by Janet P- 3 weeks ago