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Is there a way to get married without combining credit (in Pennsylvania)?
I've been engaged for 3 years and with my girlfriend for 5 years total. She wants to get married so badly and I can't blame her but if we would marry, she'd assume my credit which is horrendous. I've got 60k in unpaid medical bills and three maxed out credit cards i haven't paid in years (two $500 limits and one $300 limit, small potatoes compared to my medical debts). I really want her to be my wife but I don't want to ruin our credit completely because we won't always have family members to help us out when we need credit and can't get it or when we need a home. can i do anything? she deserves to be my wife and i want her to be...
1 month ago - 5 answers
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Your confused on how credit works. When people get married their credit is not merged, secondly all debts incurred prior to marriage belong to only the person that incurred the debt even in a community property State which PA is not. The only way your bad credit will affect your Wife is if you two apply together for a loan.
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Finance Manager for over 9-years / 2009 edition Consumer Action Handbook.
by SPIFIMAN1
1 month ago
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First, any debts accumulated before marriage stay yours and the credit history on those debts does not transfer to your wife. However, your bad credit will affect your ability to purchase a house or get joint credit further down the road. In other words, any future credit will have to depend solely on your wife's history and income until and unless you get your history cleaned up and your debts paid off. This means a smaller house, less overall credit, etc.
by Steve D- 1 month ago
Your credit doesn't automatically join together just because you get married. It's only when you apply for credit jointly that it'll affect her credit.
by nottoday- 1 month ago
You each have separate credit files
by Craig T- 1 month ago
Your credit don't combine because you are getting married. I can see you care about her, otherwise you wouldn't ask this question. However, you could eventually weigh her down by accumulating more debt while she (assuming she will) help get your credit straight. I'm not saying that will happen, but couples help each other out the best way they can. I have been in the position to see that happen to other people and it ruin the relationship more often than not. Tread lightly.
by d h- 1 month ago

