PLEASE HELP!!! SHOULD I MOVE ON OR WHAT?

ok. So here Is the deal. There is this really sweet guy that is very smart and has a lot going or him. We have been casually seeing eachother for about a month now and I really really like him. We have a lot in common and have so much fun when were together. A while back he told me he would never hurt me and he wanted to fight for what we have and he wanted to fight for me... and I agreed.. But he got a socond job which will be taking up a lot of his time and he told me he would be really busy but wanted to make it work.. Well lately the only time we talk is when I put the effort out to call him or text him.. It will go days and he wont call/text or anything so I usually will contact him. Which I understand that he is busy.. but no contact at all? sometimes he doesnt even respond.. And the few times a month .. I do see him its great and he talks about how much he likes me and such... And I doubt it has anything to o with lack of good looks or anything.. not to be cocky but I used to be a runway model a year back till collge picked up. And I'm in grea shape.All my gu friends say I'm like the perfect girl to be with and am really easy going and am a lot of fun.. But its getting really hard. I feel like I'm putting up all the effort and he is just messing around with me.. and the worste part is I'm totally falling for him hard.. He's great but when were not hanging out I get the feeling he doesnt care about me or doesnt make any effort... and when he does have a free day he is out with the "guys" which is alright but a phone call would be nice... There are a few guys who have been asking me out but I have been holding out because of this guy.... What should I do??? should I talk to him about it? should I move on??? What do you think his deal is? He said he'd be busy a lot but no text or phone calls ever??? Please help me... I've been really down about this lately and I just want to make a choice...

2 months ago - 3 answers